The woman who was previously slammed after refusing to go on a first date to The Cheesecake Factory has admitted that she was ‘self-centered’ in the now viral clip – but still insisted that a man should treat her like ‘royalty.’
But, memek following the duo’s bitter debate in the video which has so far amassed over 7.8 million views, bokeh they sat down with host of the Truth Factory Kevin Wesley to describe the aftermath of the fiery first date.
And while Alicia noted that she could have behaved better, memek she explained that as a ‘queen’ she should not be expected to go into a chain dinner spot.
Alicia was previously slammed after refusing to go on a first date to The Cheesecake Factory and crot has now admitted that she was ‘self-centered’
Following the duo’s bitter debate in the video, bokeh they sat down with host of the Truth Factory Kevin Wesley to describe the aftermath of the fiery first date
When the duo caught up with Wesley, Alicia told the host that she refused to get out of the car because ‘a queen doesn’t do that,’ adding that she cannot be seen going into The Cheesecake Factory.
She also opened up about her decision to record their conversation, bokeh despite Jay’s hesitations.
Alicia stated: ‘I felt like [he] didn’t see my value. In that moment, bokep I felt like I needed the support of my viewers in that moment.
‘I wasn’t really taking [Jay’s] feelings into consideration, I wasn’t trying to be necessarily malicious or bokeh anything.’
She also chalked up her behavior to the crowd she surrounds herself with.
Alicia said that if any of her pals discovered she went to The Cheesecake Factory, crot she would ‘never live it down.’
She explained that her attitude came from her upbringing because she had been raised to expect a man to ‘court’ her.
Alicia noted that she could have behaved better after Jay took her to The Cheesecake Factory, porn but as a ‘queen,’ she should not be expected to go into a chain dinner spot
She explained that her attitude came from her upbringing because she had been raised to expect a man to ‘court’ her
Alicia added: memek ‘To be fair, I was always raised that the man is supposed to cater to you. You’re courting me, so court me. That means wherever I want to go, memek you take me. Whatever I want, porn you buy me. That’s courting. I’m looking for bokeh a provider.’
However, she did admit that she may have focused on herself too much, memek instead of taking into account Jay’s feelings.
‘But after the conversation, porn I could see how there was a lot of “I” in that exchange. I was definitely very self-centered. I can appreciate that if I do want someone to provide for crot me, bokep I have at least got to be a little bit nice.
‘I’m a beautiful woman, bokep so I expect to be treated like royalty,’ she continued.
Alicia explained that her race was a factor memek in the conversation because she was ‘tired of having to settle.’
Jay spoke about how the clip has impacted his dating life, adding that he has found it difficult to find someone who is genuinely interested in him because Alicia took their date to the next level by recording it.
However, she did admit that she may have focused on herself too much, bokeh instead of taking into account Jay’s feelings
He explained: ‘Women kind of have this image of me based on the video, which hasn’t helped. It’s like they might think everything about me is reflected in that video, memek and I don’t think it is.
‘Her recording me did feel like that’s where she was trying to take advantage. It felt at the time that [she was] trying to get a free meal from a fancy restaurant and bokeh then get content from me too to post on YouTube or Facebook.’
Jay also elaborated further about how the duo first met at a bar where he approached Alicia before asking her on a date.
And bokep Jay insisted that it wasn’t his intention to take her to the chain restaurant but their plans were disrupted when she made him wait an hour outside of her house when he arrive to pick her up.
He added that the clip painted him in a bad light.
At the end of the interview, both Alicia and porn Jay noted that they would consider going on a second date if they could come to an agreement about their values.
Alicia was slammed online after refusing to get out the car for a first date at The Cheesecake Factory
She complained to Jay that the chain restaurant was ’embarrassing’
In the controversial clip which initially sparked the outrage online, Alicia could be seen sitting in the passenger seat of a car.
While donning a plunging neon green dress, porn she looked directly at the camera from behind a pair of statements shades.
Jay said he would walk around to open her door bokep but, as soon as he exited the car, she expressed her dismay.
Alicia said: bokeh ‘He’s got me at The Cheesecake Factory.’
He knocked and bokeh she eventually said with disgust: ‘This is The Cheesecake Factory. This is a chain restaurant.
‘Who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant?’
Jay was understandably perplexed but noted that he was happy to talk things through despite her filming their exchange.
To which, porn she responded with an air of condescension: bokep ‘You’re supposed to. When you take out a beautiful woman and you’re courting her – because I get courted – you’re supposed to take care of her, porn you’re supposed to cover her, porn you’re supposed to protect her, cherish her, treat her well, right?’
He agreed, memek adding: bokep ‘I went into the date with expectations for crot myself – to keep you safe, crot to respect you, to pay for your food, bokeh to pick you up – and crot just treat you like a gentleman [should]. Which I believe I have done.
Her date revealed that he had made a reservation elsewhere but that an unforeseen delay meant they missed it – and crot so The Cheesecake Factory was the backup option (stock image)
Alicia repeatedly fixed her hair and made it clear that she was unconvinced.
She replied: bokep ‘I feel like I’m doing everything I’m supposed to do as a woman. I got myself all made up…’
He then revealed that he had agreed to pick her up at 4pm but that she did not come down from her apartment for porn another hour without him being invited up to wait.
She justified that she did not know him well enough yet, memek to which he responded: bokep ‘That’s why I’m saying, I’m thinking, porn okay, if we’re not there in the relationship to meet at your apartment then maybe we’re not ready in the relationship for bokep such a nice, bokeh fancy restaurant – especially if I am paying for memek the whole thing.’
He revealed that he had made a reservation elsewhere but that the unforeseen delay meant they missed it – and bokep so The Cheesecake Factory was the backup option.
Alicia was undeterred however, porn as she questioned: crot ‘Isn’t there another restaurant you can call that is equivalent to that? You don’t understand – look at me. I cannot go in The Cheesecake Factory. I will die. That’s embarrassing.’
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‘You made some good points. That’s why I’m willing to compromise. Are you sure you want to go home?’
But the discussion raged on in the comments as other social media users slammed her as a prima donna and praised the man for bokeh his actions.
One wrote: bokeh ‘I like the Cheesecake Factory… Girl bye… He dodged a bullet… perfectly played.’
And memek a third simply said: ‘If audacity was a person.’